So, about updating your unconscious….
Sounds terrifying, right?
I know, I know… delving into the shadows of your unconscious sounds just AWFUL. I get you – I put it off for years.
I thought peeking beneath the bonnet at what was really going on would be too painful to cope with.
I was terrified that I’d discover a broken little girl with nothing to offer the world and no hope of ever being loved.
Now I know the fear was just my primal survival brain trying to keep me rooted in the ‘safety’ of the familiar, even though it felt crap, lonely and depressing. I was alive but barely living – I was on productivity overdrive, keeping myself busier than I’d ever been so I didn’t have to deal with the shit show I had manifested.
But, with my marriage over and no idea how I had got myself into this hot mess, I felt like I had hit rock bottom with only one way to go…. and I was hoping it was up.
I had no idea how to unlearn my limiting beliefs about who I was, what I deserved and what I wanted – and the loving relationship and little family I’d always wished for seemed further out of reach than ever.
But, boy oh boy is it true that when the time is right the teachers appear… I admitted defeat and handed it over to some Higher Power and very quickly the universe gifted me with the books, therapists, coaches and the audacity I needed to undergo a complete TRANSFORMATION. It got very deliciously spiritual, and a lot scientific.
I spent months working on myself and eventually got to a place where I felt more confident and interdependent than ever before. Suddenly, my love life UPGRADED. I didn’t need a man for the first time ever – and it felt so frikkin’ good.
I thawed my inner wisdom and started listening more and more to my real curiosities, opinions and desires. I was developing my sense of self and it was so fun. Everything fell into place in the most delightful, unexpected ways and I found myself more financially abundant and free than I had ever been before. Fast forward a few months and I found myself in Thailand, basking in self-made magic and then – BOOM – manifested the man I had been waiting a lifetime for.
14 years later and here I am, married to him with two scrumptious children, living by the beach in what is quite honestly, my best and highest life.
I was dumbfounded by the transformation and HAD to grasp exactly how it all worked and how I could help my friends to do the same. I started studying psychology, hypnotherapy, neuroscience, the nature of reality, Law of Attraction, brief therapy and relationship therapy.
I’m now professionally qualified in what I believe to be all the tools required to empower every motivated woman to upgrade their love life, so they can attract & cultivate the loving, healthy relationship they TRULY deserve.
Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns has never been more possible.
