Break Free of Chasing Emotionally Unavailable Men & End Your Cycle of Heartbreak.
Transformational hypnotherapy & relationship coaching to help you move past the unconscious love blocks keeping you stuck in anxiety, pain and over-giving.
Stuck in a loop of over-giving in relationships that bring you stress & anxiety?
It doesn’t have to be this way.
I’ve been there too – anxiously attached and constantly over-giving in relationships that left me drained, uncertain, and wondering why love had to feel so hard. All I wanted was someone who would love me enough, so I would finally feel safe and secure.
Eventually, after being dumped by a controlling partner who had strung me along for four years, I’d had enough. My heartbreak turned into a refreshing anger – the kind that sparks change. I decided to honour myself and never allow anyone to control me again. I didn’t want to live in codependence anymore. Instead of chasing approval, I started asking more empowering questions.
And for a while, it looked like it had worked. I had found the courage to move on, start enjoying life again, and even attracted a completely different kind of partner – someone calm, confident, and laid-back.
So laid-back, in fact, that I soon realised it wasn’t because he respected me… it was because he didn’t really care.
That was my wake-up call. I realised I was still accepting less than I truly wanted – afraid to “knock a gift horse in the mouth” – and that I was still repeating a pattern I hadn’t fully healed.
I had a hunch that the answer lay in the childhood beliefs still haunting me (literally – I often had nightmares about my father). It felt scary, like opening Pandora’s box, but I knew my future happiness depended on finding the courage to lift the lid and face what was really going on.
With the right guidance, support and focus, I was able to quickly heal the parts of me I once feared, and began to enjoy life on my terms. I felt calmer, more grounded, and was developing genuine self-esteem because I was finally taking aligned, courageous action out of wholeness – instead of desperately trying to feel ‘enough’.
A few months into this profound healing journey, I met the man who is now my husband – and the father of our two beautiful children.
This work changed my life, and I know it can change yours too.
As a qualified Modern Clinical Hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner, Life & Success Coach, and EFT Facilitator, I have developed a powerful set of clinically proven tools that empower women to:
- Heal love-blocking beliefs and emotional patterns;
- Reconnect with their True Self and live authentically; and
- Develop advanced emotional intelligence and an empowered dating mindset.
It’s completely possible to break free from anxious, toxic relationship cycles and attract the emotionally healthy, loving partner you deserve.
Ready to upgrade your love life? Let’s go!
“I came to therapy feeling lost and overwhelmed after a difficult breakup… With Remy’s help, I’ve started to reconnect with myself, set healthy boundaries, and feel more grounded in who I am. I’m so grateful for the clarity and peace I’ve found in our work together.“
“Working with Remy has been one of the most healing and transformative experiences of my life. I’ve gained a deeper understanding of myself and the limiting beliefs I didn’t even realise I was holding onto. Each session left me feeling lighter, clearer, and more hopeful about what’s ahead.“
Frequently Asked Questions
HOW DO I KNOW THIS WILL WORK FOR ME?
My signature framework and the methods I use are based on established, clinically proven modalities. I’ve studied with the world’s best therapists, coaches and hypnotherapists – my clients (and me!) are consistently amazed at the results. If you are ready and willing, rest assured this work will help you go from feeling broken, confused, and stuck in toxic patterns to feeling whole, grounded, confident, and capable of choosing healthy love.
What if i'm afraid to be hypnotised?
If you’ve ever daydreamed while driving a car, or watched a movie that brought you to tears, or felt like a certain drink after hearing an ad on the radio… then you’ve already been hypnotised!
There’s a common misconception that being hypnotised means you lose control of yourself. Let me give you peace of mind right now: being hypnotised gives you MORE control. It will empower you to rewrite the unconscious auto-programming that is keeping you stuck.
Hypnosis is simply a focussed state of relaxation, where you invite your conscious mind to take a momentary break so you can allow your unconscious inner wisdom to lead the way to your healing and optimal mindset.
Should you still have questions or concerns, please get in touch.
What results can i expect?
This specialised approach yields fast and profound results. The framework is designed to gently guide women through the inner shifts needed to experience true healing, wholeness, and emotionally healthy love.
Most clients notice meaningful changes after the very first session — feeling lighter, calmer, and more emotionally grounded. By the end of your six-session journey, you can expect to feel calmer, more confident, and ready to step into the highest, most authentic version of yourself. From this place, what unfolds in your life often feels nothing short of miraculous.
That said, lasting transformation requires your full participation. Just like listening to a personal trainer talk about exercise won’t make you fit, this work only works if you’re ready and willing to show up for yourself. Your openness and commitment are what make this process truly life-changing.
How do I access my Zoom call?
You’ll receive a zoom link at your time of booking via email. Zoom is free to download on any device.
What happens if I can't make it to a booked session?
I encourage all clients to take full accountability for their growth by prioritising their sessions and overall wellbeing. This work creates the deepest transformation when sessions are spaced no more than 10 days apart.
If something truly unavoidable arises, I’ll do my best to offer an alternative booking time — however, please note that I can’t guarantee availability. Thank you for honouring both your time and mine by treating your session as a sacred commitment to yourself.
What happens if you are fully booked for 1:1 sessions?
While I’m deeply committed to supporting as many women as possible on their Love Upgrade journey, I currently have limited availability and high demand for 1:1 sessions.
If my calendar is full, you’re warmly invited to join the waitlist — and in the meantime, you can continue your growth through the advice-packed articles and powerful tools on this website. You’re also welcome to join the Facebook community and tune into the Her Love Upgrade podcast for ongoing support and inspiration.
I’m truly honoured to walk alongside you on your journey to healthy, aligned love. 💗
Let’s Connect!
Get in touch to discuss your individual needs & learn more about how we can work together.
Email me
remy@herloveupgrade.com
Call / WhatsApp Me
+61 (0)452 187 369
VISIT ME
Pagewood, NSW, 2035,
Australia (sessions available online & in-person)